Band crap, just venting...
Ok, we had an instance awhile back...our guitar player talked shit about me (the other guitar player) to someone outside of the band. Of course, he forgot to realize she is one of my best friends...of course drama ensued, but..we got OVER it. He apologized, I vented at him, whatever...During all the bullshit it was said..if something needs to be said about the band say it to the band. Like I said we moved on (or so we thought)
For the past few months everything has been fine, writing some new stuff, playing shows, having fun.
Last night, we were supposed to practice..he couldn't make it. No problem, it was NOT a regular practice night, we were trying to make one up that we had to miss earlier in the week.
Me, the singer, and drummer were at a separate function that afternoon. Well singer says...I gotta talk to you guys.
Seems he's been running his mouth again about ALL of us..to other people not in the band but this time to some guys he and the singer are friends with. These guys (the friends) knew all kinds of stuff about the band, and all kinds of problems we all have (the guitarist is perfect in all scenarios of course). Our singer was floored by what these guys were saying, because none of us were aware we had a problem.
Anyhow...I'm tired of this. If you don't like ANYONE in the band, and can only manage to talk shit about them, go find another band. I am at the point that I want him gone. I won't let him make up a second time with me.
I hate having to find a new band member, but I damn sure don't want one around that doesn't even like us and can only talk shit about us to other people.
Thanks for letting me vent..sorry
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